The right time to seek help is when you have done everything to help yourself

You know Ive talked a lot about self-reliance in this interview but there are times in every ones life when (inaudible)in other person helps a lot the right time to seek guidance is when you have done all the you know to help yourself and you still feel disoriented, confused, depressed, out of control or victimized that is the best counsellor want but when youre feeling scared in the way that your spiritual sight and other counsellors or coachers needed to help you find the right path in the given situation and to lead you in to seeing again for yourself one of the first things I ask someone who comes to me for guidance is what have you already done to try to help yourself with this sometimes its a simple matter of the counsellor reminding you of options that you forgot or perhaps never considered but again when youve done everything that you know to do and then still feel disoriented, confused, depressed, out of control or victimized thats the time to seek help from a reliable guide.